Wow.. Its been ages since I actually wrote something. Its such a delightful change. Thank you Twitter for having character restriction and pushing me to blogging non stop.
I have so much to say.
So here I go. But nothing is related. N mostly self directions.
1. Your mother is the first person who fell in love with you. Guess what? She will still be the person who will always love you the most, no matter how many ppl love you now. Your husband, your friends, your siblings. Its not the same. Will never be. So you owe it to her. Worship her. Love her. Take care of her. And most importantly- be there for her.
2. Family: Married people will agree (hopefully) - we have 2 families. For girls, the family you marry into becomes your "primary" family. This is what you will be taught and rightly so to a large extent, as applicable from case to case ;) I don't believe in the concept of "in laws". I've always hated the Hindi serials which preached the saas bahu apprehensions. Luckily for me, I don't have a mother in law. Just another mother. I think that's the best feeling on earth. The greatest blessing. So let's hope I put up my end of show well too.
3. Husband: tricky. Wrong day to blog about my husband. Never type after a fight. My golden rule of life: never save a bad memory. Destroy all.evidence. So I'm not gonna speak much. Its a hard time for him and I'm suppose to be the bouncing board - as he likes to call it. But sometimes the negativity gets to me. This time it has. N worst part is I can't share with anyone.
Sigh... Let's.move on.
4. Friends: your closest friends will always be the closest. Well that's what I thought and grew up with. Apparently its wrong. People keep evolving throughout their life. Their priorities change. Their passions change. I feel my bestest friends aren't really the closest now. But luckily I have made new friends who are very close and don't make.me miss my besties. I guess expectations and failure to meet them drew me apart from my childhood friends :( A loss I feel everyday but can't change. Its annoying and saddening at the same time.
I miss u girls. I cherish the old days. Wish we could bring them back soon.
5. Little joys in life - helping someone is the greatest joy. U get a different high when you know u made a difference to someone's life. N I'm not influenced by the movie Kick.
Now I'm sleepy. At least I should be. So here I go - visit my dreamworld. Its fun sometimes to meet my old friends there. It's a wonder how your brain can offer you a treat of its own.
Ciao!
I have so much to say.
So here I go. But nothing is related. N mostly self directions.
1. Your mother is the first person who fell in love with you. Guess what? She will still be the person who will always love you the most, no matter how many ppl love you now. Your husband, your friends, your siblings. Its not the same. Will never be. So you owe it to her. Worship her. Love her. Take care of her. And most importantly- be there for her.
2. Family: Married people will agree (hopefully) - we have 2 families. For girls, the family you marry into becomes your "primary" family. This is what you will be taught and rightly so to a large extent, as applicable from case to case ;) I don't believe in the concept of "in laws". I've always hated the Hindi serials which preached the saas bahu apprehensions. Luckily for me, I don't have a mother in law. Just another mother. I think that's the best feeling on earth. The greatest blessing. So let's hope I put up my end of show well too.
3. Husband: tricky. Wrong day to blog about my husband. Never type after a fight. My golden rule of life: never save a bad memory. Destroy all.evidence. So I'm not gonna speak much. Its a hard time for him and I'm suppose to be the bouncing board - as he likes to call it. But sometimes the negativity gets to me. This time it has. N worst part is I can't share with anyone.
Sigh... Let's.move on.
4. Friends: your closest friends will always be the closest. Well that's what I thought and grew up with. Apparently its wrong. People keep evolving throughout their life. Their priorities change. Their passions change. I feel my bestest friends aren't really the closest now. But luckily I have made new friends who are very close and don't make.me miss my besties. I guess expectations and failure to meet them drew me apart from my childhood friends :( A loss I feel everyday but can't change. Its annoying and saddening at the same time.
I miss u girls. I cherish the old days. Wish we could bring them back soon.
5. Little joys in life - helping someone is the greatest joy. U get a different high when you know u made a difference to someone's life. N I'm not influenced by the movie Kick.
Now I'm sleepy. At least I should be. So here I go - visit my dreamworld. Its fun sometimes to meet my old friends there. It's a wonder how your brain can offer you a treat of its own.
Ciao!
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